The true reason for which God bestows so many graces upon the humble is this, that the humble are faithful to these graces and make good use of them. They receive them from God and use them in a manner pleasing to God, giving all the glory to Him, without reserving any for themselves.
This is like the faithful steward who appropriates nothing that belongs to his master; and thus deserves that praise and reward given to the faithful servant mentioned in the Gospel:
“Well done, thou good and faithful servant; because thou hast been faithful over a few things, I will place thee over many things” (Matt. 25:21).
O my Soul, how dost thou stand in regard to this faithfulness toward God? Art thou not like those servants to whom their master daily entrusts money now to buy one thing, now another, and who each time keep back a small coin for themselves, until little by little they become unfaithful servants and great thieves? In like manner, our pride renders us unfaithful servants when we attribute to ourselves that praise which is due only to a gift that is entrusted to us by God and which ought to be ascribed unreservedly to Him.
O Lord, Thou seest all my thefts, and I am overwhelmed with astonishment that Thou dost still trust me! Considering my unfaithfulness, I am not worthy of the smallest grace; but make me humble, and I shall also be faithful.
It is certainly true that he who is humble is also faithful to God, because the humble man is also just in giving to all their due, and above all, in rendering to God the things that are God’s; that is, in giving Him the glory for all the good that he is, all the good that he has and for all the good that he does; as the Venerable Bede says:
“Whatever good we see in ourselves, let us ascribe it to God and not to ourselves.”
To give thanks to God for all the blessings we have received and are continually receiving is an excellent means of exercising humility, because by thanksgiving we learn to acknowledge the Supreme Giver of every good. And for this reason it is necessary for us always to be humble before God. St. Paul exhorts us to render thanks for all things and at all times: “In all things give thanks” (1 Thess. 5:18). “Giving thanks always for all things” (Eph. 5:20). But that our thanksgiving may be an act of humility it must not only come from the lips but from the heart, with a firm conviction that all good comes to us through the infinite mercy of God.
Look at a beggar who has received a considerable gift from a rich man, with what warmth he expresses his gratitude! He is astonished that the rich man should have deigned to bestow a gift upon him, protesting that he is unworthy of it and that he receives it, not through his own merit, but through the noble kindness of the giver, to whom he will always be most grateful. He speaks from his heart because he knows his own miserable condition of poverty and the benign condescension of the rich man. And should the thanks we give to God be less than the thanks which are given from man to man? When one man can thus thank another, ought we not to blush with shame that there should be men who feel more humility of heart toward their fellow-men than we do toward God?
O my God, I thank Thee with all my heart for these benefits which I have received through Thy goodness alone, which I have not deserved and for which I have never given Thee thanks till now! It was through pride that I failed to give Thee the thanks due to Thee, and it is through pride that I have enjoyed all Thy gifts as if I had not received them at Thy hands. I detest my pride, and with Thy help, I will remember to give Thee thanks at all times and for all things: “I will bless the Lord at all times,” (Ps. 33:1), praise, bless and thank Thee for all Thy mercies forever and ever: “The mercies of the Lord I will sing for ever” (Ps. 88:1).
The important point is that our heart should be humble, because this is what Christ seeks in us above all things. It is useless to mend the case and hands of a watch, unless we also adjust the wheels and the works. And in the same way, it is useless for anyone to be modest in attire and bearing, if there be no true humility in the heart.
We ought to apply our Savior’s sayings to ourselves: “Thou blind Pharisee, first make clean the inside of the cup and of the dish, that the outside may become clean,” (Matt. 23:26), and learn from the teaching of St. Thomas that “from our interior disposition of humility proceed signs in words, deed and manner by which that is manifested without, which is within.”
I admit the truth of that which was so often repeated in Holy Writ, that humility is a special gift of God and that no one can possess it of himself, “except God gave it” (Wis. 8:21). But at the tribunal of God there will be no excuse for us for not having possessed humility, because we have been taught that we could obtain it by persevering prayer; and if we have not used this means to obtain it, it will be our fault that we have not asked God for it and therefore our fault that we have not obtained it.
Our Savior in His Gospel says: “Ask and you shall receive” (John 16:24). If you want anything of Me, ask and you shall be heard. And can this virtue cost us less than the simple effort of asking it of god with great insistence? Therefore, let us not cease to ask for it; and by the very method of obtaining it, our hearts, our looks, our words, our movements, our bearing, and even our very thoughts will all be humble: “For from the heart come forth…thoughts” (Matt. 15:19).
This article is taken from a chapter in Humility of Heart by Fr. Cajetan Mary da Bergamo which is available from TAN Books.
